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CategoryChange and Transition

Dancing with Change

What if you approached change as you would a potential lover? You know, flirted with it a bit? How might that be a different experience for you? I’ve been thinking about various approaches to change because, well, that’s what I do. But this “flirting with change” perspective hadn’t occurred to …

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Just Move The Tree!

I am convinced we all have one thing in our lives – a simple thing, not a huge task – that if addressed, would free up boundless energy and get things moving again. Kind of like a log jam in a river. Sure, you could look at ALL THOSE LOGS …

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Holding Court

Do you ever get overwhelmed? Yeah, me too.  I’m not talking about being buried underneath piles of things to do or a list of intentions to hold as much as I’m talking about the THOUGHTS and FEELINGS we have about all those things. To me, that is where the rubber …

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Pebbles In My Shoe

“The world is a loop. It folds over onto itself. It is wonderfully and uncomfortably malleable.”  – Jessica Esch, SheSpeaks 9.22.11 “Time is not free – that’s why it’s so precious and worth fighting for.” – Ann Lamott, Finding Time “What I’m realizing is that the noise…that’s where the electricity …

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Add Water And Mix

What if it were easy and we were all bent on making it hard? I saw Oprah speak in her Master Class series a while back and she told the story of a mother who was holding her son as he was dying. He had a terminal disease and these …

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Front Row Seats

I fell in love the other day. With a concept. It’s not the first time it’s happened, but it was sweet love nonetheless. I recently had a fight with a family member. I left the exchange feeling invisible, misunderstood, and worse, judged. What made it even more difficult was that …

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Lightening Bugs, Not Bolts

When we’re stuck, at a crossroads or wanting some clarity on the direction of our lives, we often say we’re waiting for those “lightening bolts” of understanding to strike us. Some of us might call them epiphanies – those transcendent moments when everything becomes clear and we know just what …

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Undoing

I recently took a self-imposed sabbatical. I didn’t talk about it much or shout it from the rooftops. I just quietly carved out a four week chunk of time where I didn’t see clients. I just saw me. I was my primary client. Even though I knew it was needed …

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